They say that it's the "hard times" that prove that relationships can make it through anything. I suppose that this is true. But I do not think that throwing an individual across a room, and proceeding to kick them, pick them up, and punch them is not a solution to anything. My father says that a man can be physically violent with fists because women can be physically violent with words. I debate whether or not those fall into the same category. Hmmm...The sorrys have been said. Apologies have been made...and things are better now... But I can still feel the bruises on my arms and ribs. I can still feel the hurt when I stretch muscles. I can still feel it...